Ready to learn more?

You’ve built a meaningful life—yet still crave a relationship that reflects your depth.

This is for you if:

• Your past partner choices no longer reflect who you are becoming

• You’re ready to meet the Parts shaping your relational patterns

• You desire love that aligns with your values, not just your habits

• You’re prepared to do the inner work required for outer transformation

This journey is for those who are done settling—for the ones choosing Self-led, soul-aligned connection.

This isn’t a space for shortcuts or surface-level shifts. It may not be the right fit if:

• You’re not ready to commit time and energy to self-exploration

• You’re looking for dating tips instead of internal transformation

• You’re currently healing acute trauma or building basic stability

• You prefer theory over embodied practice

• You aren’t willing to engage between sessions

This container requires presence, not perfection—but it does ask for participation.

No. The Selection Room™ is a coaching experience—not psychotherapy.

While it’s informed by clinical training and rooted in deep psychological frameworks, it is not a replacement for mental health treatment. This space is designed for self-led exploration, Parts-based inquiry, and conscious relationship design—not to diagnose, treat, or manage mental illness.

We focus on present-day patterns, emotional intelligence, and Self-led decision-making in dating and relational life.

If you’re currently in therapy, this work can complement it beautifully—but it is its own distinct path.

Transformation is layered—but here’s what begins to shift:

• Clarity around your patterns, Parts, and unconscious relational drivers

• Decisions that feel Self-led instead of fear-driven

• Attraction to partners who reflect your true values and emotional needs

• Relational experiences rooted in alignment, not attachment

This isn’t just about dating—it’s about rebuilding the relationship you have with your Self.

Your journey unfolds in three Self-led phases:

• Phase 1: Discovering Your Inner Landscape Meet the Parts shaping your beliefs, desires, and relational habits

• Phase 2: Releasing the Old & Embracing Renewal Unburden outdated scripts and begin rewriting your relational story

• Phase 3: Embodying a New Reality Make conscious, aligned partner choices with clarity and emotional truth.

After Phase 1, your path is flexible—you can pause, continue, or curate a rhythm that suits your readiness.

Rooted in Internal Family Systems, this journey bridges psychology and soul.

You’ll:

• Illuminate the internal Parts guiding your partner choices

• Unburden wounds, fears, and scripts that no longer serve you

• Practice choosing from Self, not from survival

This isn’t about fixing yourself—it’s about remembering who you really are, and choosing love from that place.

2–4 coaching sessions per month (70 minutes each)—immersive, personalized work to meet you where you are.

A minimum of two sessions monthly is required to maintain depth and momentum.

• Consistent scheduling for steady evolution

• Between-session reflections and guided practices

• Full presence and participation—you shape the journey

This is not a crash course. It’s a reorientation toward your own truth, and the relational life you’re truly meant for.

Not at all.

This program is about recalibrating how you choose, love, and relate—from the inside out.

Whether you’re single, partnered, or in-between, the work begins within.